Roger Mathews took to Instagram Friday to confirm in a video post here, that his wife, Jenni “JWOWW” Farley did indeed file for divorce, but he vowed to “win her back.”

Without offering up too many details, Roger put to rest any talk that there was cheating going on by either party. He said Jenni simply “grew tired of the repetitive pattern” they fell into — but did not reveal what that pattern was. He just said it was “not a good one.”

Roger captioned the video, “Praying for a better tomorrow. Sorry, world, I’m taking a day off from praying for you today, and I’m just gonna pray for my family. Hope springs eternal.”